another one leaves the nest

Tomorrow we will move our son into his first college dorm. He wisely took a semester to wait and see the path to take. Sometimes when you are unsure, wait. So the time has come, excitement and sadness play tug of war in my heart. Excitement for what all he will learn, the people he will meet and how much he will grow. His character, discipline, love and focus are rare for his age. His challenges have been many, but have served in the making of him. Goodness, I am going to miss seeing his smile everyday and trying to keep all his favorite foods stocked. I will miss his helpfulness and quiet strength. He asks alot of questions, so those will happen over the phone now. And facetime allows for smiles to be seen too. This kid is ready to fly and his roots are deep in what matters most. My cheering him on will be mixed with tears, but both are evidence of love.

So dear Jackson, remember as you walk into the next chapter, “He has told you, O man, what is good, and what does the LORD require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?” (Micah 6:8). Keep following Him and remember His presence is your constant help, strength, peace and source of joy. Now fly!

change

The theme of this year for our family appears to be change. One child moved into an apartment in New York and another will be moving into a college dorm next week. Come August, we will pack another one up and move them into a dorm as well. Another child will get their license and will no longer need us to drive them anywhere. One needs braces and his smile, that we see so often, will change. One has her mind set on trying softball, adding practices and games changes our nights. It is a lot for a heart to feel. Sorting through these thoughts and feelings brings me to a decision, my heart is being expanded again. What new friends will our kids meet that we get to love? Who will be on their softball team or roommate? I wonder if they have heard the Good News yet? Yes, so much change, but many opportunities too. I think we will be just fine.

*Photo Credit: Avery Earl Photography